Reebok Rally DC

I was lucky enough to snag a spot on the ReebokRallyDC team yesterday.  The event was originally supposed to be ReebokRunsDC but there was a little mix up between an intern at Reebok and the event organizer.  The shoes sent to the organizer were not really made for running, so he improvised and had us do a brisk walk down H Street, NE, then we did a few cardio moves to really get the heartbeat pumping.  Afterwards, we went to Po Boy Jim for a celebratory drink.  I really wanted a shrimp po boy but the way my diet is set up, I couldn't do it :(

Despite the mixup, this was an awesome event.  I went by myself and ended up meeting some pretty cool people.  In 2016 we do not exchange numbers anymore,we just start following each other on social media.  I look forward to doing something with them again.

Thanks to Anwaa of DCWKLY for organizing this event, the drink and for the FREE gear!  We received a pair of Reebok Classics and a workout outfit for free.  Who does not love free gear?!?

To see pictures check out my IG page @reddishbr and look up #ReebokRallyDC and #StepForward

DCWKLY has another event coming up next week Wednesday (March 30th) from 7pm - 10pm where there will be giveaways which include shoes.  Go to their site and RSVP if you are interested:

BCBGeneration Renegade Grommet Bootie

There are a few fashion bloggers I follow on IG then there is one that I STALK.  Her IG is KYRZAYDA_ and her website is Kyrzayda.

I gave you that information because she is the reason why I bought the above boots.  I saw them on her page twice and fell in love.  I just had to have them.  When I ordered them, they were on back order.  I totally forgot I ordered these boots until I saw them again on IG. I went to check the status of my order and saw they were still on back order.  I called BCBG to cancel the order only to be told they were shipped days ago.  It was meant for us to be together!

I finally wore my new babies on NYE with a white shirt dress and faux leather black pants, chic rocker look.  Since I am not a fashion blogger, I did not think to take a picture of the full outfit.  I must say I had these on all night and my feet did NOT hurt.  I think these may be my favorite shoes!  I am going to start building all my outfits around them lol

I got the black Renegade Grommet Bootie on sale (plus 5% cash back from Ebates) from BCBG.  They are currently sold out of black but they still have taupe and cognac both are currently 40% off (go through Ebates for 5% cash back).  If you really want black, Nordstrom has them for $138.95 (3% cash back if you go through Ebates first).

Warm Taupe

Cognac

Hello 2016

Boy 2015 flew by!  There isn't much I have to complain about for 2015.  My kids were healthy and doing good in school.  I had a scare but everything worked out well in the end so I can say that I really had a great year.

For this new year, I don't have any resolutions.  I mean how can you perfect perfection LOL Seriously, I do have things that I have been working on and will continue to improve throughout this new year.

Credit - this is a topic everyone hates.  I swear they should have taught us how to build and maintain good credit scores in high school.  We need it more than we need geometry.  I've been working to repair my credit.  I was laid off a few years ago and had a lot of medical bills, which caused my score to drop significantly.  I am happy to say my score has gone up so much but I still have a way to go.  I am still working on paying off debts so that I can eventually have that 800+ credit score.  Hopefully, by the end of this year I will be close.

Budget - you can't build your credit score without a proper budget!  I started a budget last year, it help a little but I wasn't really strict with it and was still spending on things I could have waited on.  Plus, I don't thing the budget worksheet I had was all that helpful.  My friend (s/o Kay) sent me a worksheet that really allows me to snapshot my income and my debts.  And Wells Fargo has a feature were you can see where you have spending your money.  Let's just say that feature really really opened my eyes.  For the first 6 months of this new year, I have placed myself on a strict budget.  I want to pay down more bills and also put more into my savings.  So if you invite me out and I can't make it, just know it is not in my budget for this month.  That doesn't mean to stop inviting me :)

Vacation - along with working on my credit and finally utilizing a budget (in the right way), I would love to take a vacation out of the country this year.  I hope I can make it happen!

Health - no new goals.  I have been working out and eating an 80/20 clean diet.  2015 was actually the first year I didn't stop working out in Nov & Dec.  Which means this is the first January were I am not pushing to lose holiday weight.  Not only did I NOT gain any holiday weight, I LOST weight during the season!!!!!

Other than the above things I have been working on before the new year, I just plan to enjoy 2016.

I hope your new year is going well so far :)

Over-the-Knee Boots

Fall is here so that means it is time to break out the boots!  Summer is my favorite season but Fall is a close second.  I like Fall because I get to wear my favorite boots with a cute skirt and no stockings!

Last January, I started looking for an affordable OTK/thigh high boot.  Unfortunately, the only pair that I seem to come across that I really liked where the Highland Boot by Stuart Weitzman.  Now this boot retails for $798, totally out of my price range.  I am not a baller :-) Well I kind of gave up on the search until a few weeks ago.  I came across the Highland again, so I sent them to my fabulous fashionable sister-in-law asking her to help me find a affordable replica.  After she told me she had just order them in black (insert my heart breaking) so agreed to help.  I also enlisted the help of my fabulous fashionable Pisces friend.

My FF Pisces friend and I went on a search yesterday for the perfect replica of the Highland Boot by Stuart Weitzman.  I have decided to post our findings to save you all the trouble.  You can thank me later :)

If you can afford the $798 price tag, you can purchase the Highland Boot here.

Also, remember when shopping online, go through Ebates first to get a percentage back from your total spent.

Steve Madden Gorgeous Over-the-Knee Boots - $149 (the king of knocking off a high end brand)

Sam Edelman 'Kayla' Over the Knee Boot (online only) - $284.95

Jeffrey Campbell 'Perouze' Over the Knee Boot - $244.95

Aldo Eleliven Khaki Teal - $170.99

Dolce Vita Okana Over the Knee Boots - $280.00

Carvela Sammy Taupe Heeled Over the Knee Boots - $323.00

ASOS Key to my Heart Lace up Over the Knee Boots - $108.00

Top Shop CONTROL2 High Leg Boots - $240.00

H&M Thigh High Suede Boots - $149.00

Religion

When people ask me what church I go to or if I go to church, I tell them no and let them know I do not believe in organized religion.  A lot of times, some take this an insult.  I don't know why my belief is an insult to them.  I mean I can feel insulted that they practice a religion that I don't believe in.

Sometimes, I am not able to articulate my view as well as I would like.  Last week, I was watching the Carmichael Show and they hit on this topic.  Jerrod Carmichael's (the main character) live-in girlfriend Maxine told his family she was Jewish but not practicing.  She then told them she was an Agnostic.  Now I have never heard this term before and I vowed to look it up when the show was over.  However, throughout the show the points she was trying to make were exactly how I feel.

Agnostic - it basically means that we don't believe or disbelieve in the existence of GOD.  Now don't freak all the way out yet...we are not Atheists.  We're like in the middle, you need to prove to us GOD exist and you need to be able to prove factually GOD does not exist.

Oftentimes, I question why certain ethnicities are practicing Christians especially after all the hardships we/they have been through.  I ask myself why would GOD allow a race of people to be slaves?  Why would GOD allow a young man to walk up in his house and kill his children who were praying to him?  Then I wonder if it wasn't for GOD, how did that baby survive the police shooting up the car he was in?  How after a night of drinking I was able to wake up the next morning and not remember the drive home but I was home safe with no accidents?  You know they say He looks after babies and dummies? I also wonder if GOD did exist, how did all the other races survive before the Europeans introduced him?  What makes one religion different than other?  Why do some worship Allah? 

There are many many many more questions I have to I know most will not be able to answer.  Once, I asked on Facebook why did most Christians go to church on Sunday when Saturday is the Sabbath.  The ones who quote bible scriptures all day everyday didn't even attempt to answer me.  I did have one person tell me to ask a Pastor :\  If you go to church and read the bible as much as you say, shouldn't you be able to answer what I deemed to be a simple question?

Hopefully, one day I will be able to sit down and have a non-argumentative conversation with someone about religion.  I would love to know why Theists believe and why Atheists do not.  Maybe one will be able to answer my questions without being offended. 

Entrepreneur or Employee

If you know me then you know I am generally all over the place.  My mind is on overload, I have way too many tabs open at once.  I can never just sit and focus on one thing at a time. Hence, why I do not update this blog regularly.

I have for the longest time thought about owning my own business.  However, I am not very talented. I cannot draw, I don't have any secrets on how to be the perfect mother or how to obtain long natural hair, I cannot give you couponing secrets and I don't have any clinetale to sell clothes too.  So what is a girl to do make extra money or become her own boss???

I signed up for Uber (I haven't actually done it yet). I thought about traveling for a living but I have kids so that won't work. I even thought about opening a black owned beauty supply store.  The problem is I cannot focus on goal.  I will start looking up information to see how to get started on something but if it doesn't jump out at me fast, I move on to the next thing.  I know my friends think here she goes with her crazy ideas again. 

I think do I have what it takes to be an entrepreneur?  Did other entrepreneurs go through this?  Or am I better off just being an employee? Do I want to continue to work for someone else and make them rich while I remain middle class?  What options do I have?

I guess I will figure it out on day.

Earth Day Concert

On Saturday, I attended the free Earth Day Concert on the National Mall.  The concert started at 11am, I wanted to get there by 10:30 to get a spot close to the stage.  I didn't get there until a little before 12pm.  Luckily, it wasn't that crowded when we arrived.

The only issue was on their site, they listed you could not bring in "structures" However, they did not list exactly what structures were.  Well once we got there we realized that folding chairs was considered a "structure" They were very strict about not letting people bring their chairs in. One of the guys who was searching bags told us that chairs would be thrown away by 5pm (this is supposed to be a celebration for EARTH  DAY yet they are throwing away chairs :\ ) I put my two chairs in the pile and said I would leave at 4pm to make sure I retrieved my chairs.

Once we got through security, we found a spot not too far from the stage.  Train came on to perform not long after.  It was a great performance!  Once Train finished, we decided to head out to the food trucks.  I am glad we left out when we did because they were collecting the large pile of chairs and tossing them.  I snatched up my two and asked the wonderful ladies at the free bike parking "lot" if I could leave them there.

Anyway, after standing in the long food lines we headed back in to watch the reminder of the performances.  Overall, it was a great day and all of the artist put on a great show. I like how they had the speeches on the environment & global poverty between each artist set instead of all in the beginning.

The artist line up was:
Train
Fall Out Boy (they rocked!)
Mary J. Blige
Usher
Common (I totally fangirled over him)
My Morning Jacket
No Doubt (LOVED, LOVED and LOVED their performance)

I didn't get a lot of pictures as I was too busy dancing and having fun.

First let me take a selfie

The one and only Gwen Stefani

Now lets take an usie

My oldest photobombing Tay

My allergies were starting to act up at this point of the day